Who's On Top?

I'm a very patriotic American, more than most.  I love America (does it love me?).  Maybe my relationship with the country, though, has been like my relationship with the women I've loved.  Hmm.  And what's the common thread there?  

What I have cherished most are the American Freedoms.  Freedom of the press, freedom of expression. . . .  I've had the right to be a crazy fucking Boheme, march, protest, play music to raise money for radical causes. . . all protected by the U.S. military forces who I have never even barely envied.  But their mission was a noble one--to protect American liberties and keep the citizenry safe from oppressors.  

So what the fuck happened? 

Donald Trump happened, that's what the fuck happened, him and the entire corrupt bunch of republicans kissing his ring.  Now the U.S. Armed Forces are being used to deny Americans those very freedoms.   It is a mission flip.  And now my lack of envy is morphing into something else.  

GRAPEVINE, Tex. — “We are witnessing a cultural revolution.”


Alex Clark stood center stage in a hotel ballroom on Friday evening, all business in her tweed minidress, pearls and beehive bun. The influencer and podcast host was addressing the hundreds of attendees who had gathered for the Young Women’s Leadership Summit, an annual conference hosted by MAGA youth group Turning Point USA. Perched on a pair of periwinkle platform heels, Clark laid out the tenets of that cultural revolution, one alliterative prescription at a time.

“Less Prozac, more protein!” she said. “Less burnout, more babies! Less feminism, more femininity!”

Clark, whose “Culture Apothecary” podcast for Turning Point vaulted her to the forefront of the “Make America Healthy Again” movement, was articulating her vision for a new conservative womanhood— one that fused its traditional pillars of faith and family with wellness culture.

“This is Whole Foods meets The West Wing,” she said. “It’s collagen, calluses, and conviction. It’s castor oil, Christ, and a well-stocked pantry.” The right has “the girls who lift weights, eat clean, have their hormones balanced, have their lives together,” Clark said. The left, meanwhile, has “TikTok activists with five shades of autism, panic attacks and a ring light.” All this amounted, by her calculation, to the notion that conservatives are now “the cool kids” and “mainstream.”

MAGA girls are cute, there ain't no doubt about it.  Some of them.  The ones in the gym married to the rich republican guys.  They drive nice cars and have nice clothes, they get botox and facials and massages and have their therapists. . . .

Hold on a minute, though!  These are the rock stars of MAGA, not the ones. . . you know. . . like my relatives.  Lower MAGA, the majority, are the ones with jobs and mortgages and baby daddies, used cars and lots of credit card debt.  They watch Dr. Pimple Popper and Honey Boo-Boo (I don't really know who that is).  

But. . . they associate themselves with the upper MAGA women through commercial television and social media.  

I've been suckered, I think.  All the women I've loved, all those liberal democrat women. . . they all opted out for. . . marriage, children, expensive cars and clothing, big houses, husbands with lots of money. . . .  

I've been a dope!

I thought I liked the bohemian girls, but they are crazy as shithouse rats, by and large, just like the MAGA media portrays them.  

Remember when Fox News started hiring all the pretty women and CNN had all the. . . other.  Then CNN hired Erin Burnett and put her in short skirts under a glass topped table and got a ratings jump even though she is one of the dumbest people ever to have a news show?  And now?  Look at the women on CNN.  And I wonder. . . 

Seems to me there isn't much difference in the left and right at the top.  I love Caitlin Collins reporting, love how she dogs Trump, but I read an article recently, a sort of bio piece, that put her smack dab in the D.C. private club set.  Can you guess how much Caitlin Collins is worth?  

I should read up on Clarissa Ward, CNNs Middle East reporter.  She is one of my heroes.  She goes where others fear to tread and all the other cliches.  She is great.  

Holy shit!  I just looked her up--same fucking story.  Went to Yale, married to a wealthy Austrian, three kids, lots of money. . . . 

And yet. . . she is nothing like a MAGA woman, is she?  I don't know if I can close the circle on this one today.  

Is it close or square the circle? 

Look, I just needed to get away from my pathetic narrative.  I'm at my mother's.  Of course, this is when I get lots of party invitations.  She is doing better pain-wise, but she moves slower than an arthritic turtle and really prefers to sit in a chair and let the world take care of her.  I can't predict the future.  I just feel I'm standing in a pool of quicksand.  

Last night, I fell asleep in front of the television sometime after dinner.  When I opened my eyes, my mother was going to bed.  How long had I been sitting up asleep?  An hour and half, perhaps.  Exhausted.  Somehow, though, I got hooked on YouTube videos of Sly and the Family Stone.  I didn't know that the bass player and one of the keyboardists was Sly's brother and sister.  It was really a family affair.  

I stayed up too late then and slept poorly last night.  But today, you know. . . another day in paradise.  

Out

It couldn't last, not even a day.  When I called my mother after writing yesterday's post, I asked how she was doing.  

"Oh dear lord, I had a terrible night.  I hurt. . . oh god. . . it is bad."

So I got dressed and went to the hospital.  She was sitting up.  

"How are you doing?"

"I'm alright."

"I thought you were doing terribly?"

"They gave me some pain medication."

That was obvious.  She was loopy as hell.  The nurse told me that the doctor would be in at eleven, so I waited.  That was bullshit, though.  I asked another nurse who told me he was in the hospital, but not on this floor.  I told my mother I was going to the gym and that I would be back in a little while as, according to all reports, she was going to be released.  

"Do what you have to do," she said.  "Take your time."

I walked down the hall to the elevator, and when the doors opened, two of her neighbors stepped out.  Good.  I informed them about what was going on.  I was glad they were going to sit with my mother.  

So, feeling guilty, I left.  I had some exercise, and when I got back into my car, I checked my phone.  I had lots of calls.  My mother's neighbor had left one that sounded pretty shitty.  

"They are discharging your mother.  You need to come get here."

I called my mother.  No, she said, she had not seen the doctor.  

"I'm going home to shower, then I'll be right up."

When I got to the hospital, the neighbor women were still there.  

"They said she could go home," one of them reported.  

She still had a port in her arm.  "I don't think they are going to let her take that with her," I said, pointing.  

"Oh."

"So you haven't seen a doctor yet?"

"No.  They brought me lunch.  Boy. . . that wasn't anything."

Just then, a girl walked in.

"Are you finished," she asked my mother and took away the tray.

"Do you have anymore crackers," one of the neighbors asked.  

The girl walked to the cart and brought back a deep container full of crackers and little peanut butter cups.  Oh, man. . . it was Valhalla.  The two neighbors were going at the crackers and peanut butter with vigor.  

A case manager came in to explain what could, would, and should happen once my mother was released . Did we understand?  

"Sure.  But she can't leave with the port in her arm."

"Oh!"

In a bit, a woman came to remove the port.  I requested a wheelchair.  Just then, two other neighbor women walked into the room.  It was getting very crowded.  

"Why didn't you tell us your mother was in the hospital?" one of them complained.  

"Uh. . . I was managing.  My mother had her phone.  She called people."

That did not get me off the hook, though.  Some of them were kind of pissed.  In truth, I didn't have most of their numbers, and I had no desire to call each of them and tell the story and answer questions anyway.  

The wheelchair was brought, and the head nurse came in and asked my mother how her stay had been.  And in a minute, my mother was in the wheelchair piled up with some of the bags of clothing and paraphernalia from her stay.  I led the parade down the hallway toward the elevator.  

When I got my mother into the car, I waved goodbye to the group.  I could see the woman who has us over to dinner all the time punctuating her tirade with a jabbing pointer finger.  I read her lips.  

"I called him and he never called me back. . . ."

Fuck her, I said out loud.  She looked positively maniacal.  

We picked up my mother's prescriptions--pain pills, muscle relaxers, and a laxative.  Then we were home. It was mid-afternoon.  I was pooped.  I opened a beer and fell asleep sitting up on the couch.  When I woke up, my mother was sitting at the kitchen table in a narcotic stupor, or so I hoped.  

"Are you alright?"

"Yes."

"I need to go to the grocery store and get something to make for dinner.  How's chicken, beans, potatoes, and Brussels sprouts."  

"That's o.k."

When I got back, she was sitting in her usual chair in the garage.  I guessed this was a good sign.  Apparently she was in no bad pain.  I took the groceries in and began to cook.  And as I was cooking, the neighbors from across the street walked in with a pot of chicken and dumplings.  This was the same woman who was pissed at the hospital.  

"I TOLD your mother that we were making her chicken and dumplings!" she said.  

"She didn't tell me," I said.  And I was glad.  I don't like their chicken and dumplings.  It is really a kind of creamy soup.  The chicken is shredded and the dumplings are more like noodles all swimming in a flour and milk kind of cream.  It would not have been a good first meal home.  

When they had gone, I plated the dinner.  It was a lot of food. 

"Eat what you want.  You know I always cook more than we need.  Nobody is going to leave the table hungry."

My mother ate it all.  

"This has good flavor," she said.  

Indeed.  

We were both exhausted and went to bed early.  Now morning has come, my mother has gotten up, and we will see what the day brings.  There is this to do an I'm waiting for a call from the framer who is coming to look at my rotted floor joist.  I need to arrange home care/therapy for my mother today.  I feel a bit stretched.  

But I need to change my mind.  My life is not as hard as many others.  I shouldn't think of it as hard at all.  I eat, I drink, I sleep, and in between there are things to do.  That's what people do.  

"Quit think your life is tragic.  You are being stupid.  It is pathetic."

The little voice in my head, of course.  

The day is cloudy.  I need to tend to my mother and get things done.  I know you are tired of this narrative.  So am I.  It is droll and without color, but it is an accurate portrayal of how I am feeling just now.  

Not tragic.  Pathetic.  Look it up.  

Relief

A bit more optimism today.  Is it brittle?  Sure.  We all know what lies ahead, but we must choose to ignore it.  

Where to begin.  Oh, hell. . . let's start with the non sequitur.  I'm not certain that is precisely the correct term to use here, but I'll let it stand and we'll see.  I've always thought that the photo above that I took in Havana was of a wedding party coming from the church, but now I am not so sure.  Maybe it was a rehearsal.  But who can tell in Cuba where there is a very real lack of goods.  I'm speaking of the "bride's" shoes.  Hell, I don't know.  But everyone sure looks happy. 

So I've chosen to post this photo over the one I took yesterday as my mother was going into surgery.  It was just such a downer looking thing.  My mother looks to be a corpse, and that is not how the procedure turned out. But I am getting ahead of myself.  

Yesterday morning, I knew my mother was scheduled for a surgery about which we had not been fully informed as my mother had yet to see any doctor who had explained it.  When I asked about this, I was told we would get a full consult at one o'clock.  My mother would hear the benefits and risks of the surgery and would be able to make up her mind in real time.  Sounded strange enough to me but for the fact that hospitals are now truly factories meant to crank out the most productivity and rake in the maximum amount of cash.  

My plan was. . . I am not sure what my plan was.  I did not feel 100% in the morning after another night of not maximal sleep.  I was very slow to get anything done.  And my nerves were shot.  I felt I had too many things hanging over my head.  I had seen the builder who recommended the framer I had called about my rotten floor joists.  I told him I had not heard back.  He said to call him again, so that was the plan, but I was having a hard time pulling that trigger yesterday morning.  Just nerves.  Maybe this wasn't the right guy.  Maybe he didn't want to do it.  

Mid morning, I screwed up my courage and called.  He answered.  It was a brief conversation.  He was out of town until Wednesday.  He was interested in taking the job.  He'd call.  

Somehow I let that fall on the victory side of the scale.  I mean, I felt some sense of relief.  It was nothing, sure, but it was something.  

After that, I put on my gym clothes and went to the hospital to see my mother.  The idea was that I would sit with her a bit, go work out, go home and shower, and be back to the hospital for the one o'clock consult.  But it was pretty late when I got to the hospital.  My mother was with the nurse who confirmed that at one o'clock they would wheel my mother downstairs to the IR department where she would meet the doc.  

When the nurse left, my mother began telling me about a nightmare night.  I won't go into it here other than to say my mother is no longer constipated.  That was good news. . . for me.  My mother had not been given anything to eat or drink since the night before in preparation for surgery.  It was all just waiting now.  I looked at the time.  If I left right away, I could sneak in a bit of a workout, shower, and be back in time.  So I said.  

It was going to be close.  I knew I had to be out of the gym before noon.  When I walked in, there were the peeps.  I told them I was on a limited schedule because. . . . The retired nurse knew all about the procedure my mother was having and said it was pretty common.  That made me feel better.  

I was out by noon but it felt as if I was late.  I got home, hurriedly showered, threw on some clothes and was out the door by twelve-thirty.  I was back at the hospital by quarter 'til one.  And of course. . . 

We had plenty of time to chat as we waited.  My mother said she had decided that she would go ahead and have the surgery.  It was not a surgery, really, but an injection of a glue/cement material to cover the fractured vertebrae.  O.K. 

"Last night one of the nurses came in to ask about you," she said.  

"What?  Really.  Which one?"

"She was young and petite.  Brown hair.  Nice figure."

I couldn't remember any nurses that fit the description.  

"She wanted to know if you were my son.  She asked how old you were."

"Oh. . . shit. . . whatever."  

That would surely shoot the pooch.  

"She was really interested in you," my mother grinned.  "She thought you were in your forties."

"You didn't tell her my age, did you?"

Now I know you all get sick of these tales, but there is a kicker to this one that will satisfy Q and his ilk.  

"There was another nurse who thought you were my brother," she said.  

"What the fuck!?!?  So I have one who thought I was in my forties and another who thinks I might be in my nineties."

"No. . . she thought I looked younger."

I didn't tell her that they all knew how old she was from her charts.  So yea. . . fuck off.  

I was desperately searching my memory trying to remember a nurse or a tech or even a serving girl who fit the description my mother had given me, but I couldn't.  I couldn't let it go, either, so I walked into the hallway to have a look at the nurses station.  Nope.  No luck.  

They came for my mother around one thirty.  She was wheeled into a small room in the IR ward where she was hooked up to the required machinery--heart rate, oxygen levels, blood pressure, etc.  

It didn't work.  

They took the sticky sensors off my mother and reapplied new ones.  Still no luck.  Now in my head I was going what the fuck.  

They got some new cables.  That seemed to do the trick.  They were satisfied.  I was dubious.  

"We still haven't been informed about this procedure," I said to the male nurse and the female technician.  The nurse was kind of goofy.  He talked too much, told too much, and I could tell the tech didn't trust him.  

"You go ahead and input all the information," she said.  "I'll take care of this.  The anesthesiologist will be in to see you shortly, then the doctor who performs the procedure.  He will explain everything then."

When the tech left, the goofy nurse never shut up.  He explained everything from the blankets to the cafeteria.  When he walked out for a moment, my mother said, "That guy is kind of weird."  That made me laugh.  

The anesthesiologist came in.  He was an affable man, and he explained the procedure from his end.  First this drug, then the other.  It wasn't general anesthesia but it would feel like it.  They were going to use propofol.  

A bit later, the IR doc came in.  He, too, seemed swell.  He informed us of what he would do, the upside and downside of the procedure.  He said he had been doing this procedure for twenty years.  He didn't look old enough, but he seemed confident and competent.  When he was done, I asked my mother if she wanted to do it and she gave a literal thumbs up.  

They told me I could wait in her room upstairs, that this would take about an hour and a half, so I went to the cafeteria to get some coffee.  I hadn't eaten anything yet that day, but the cafeteria food was disgusting, so I bought a Kind bar and coffee and went back to my mother's room.  

Not having cable, I never get to see the news programs, so I sat in her recliner and turned the t.v. on to MSNBC, Fox, and CNN.  

I quickly realized I had made the right decision when I cut the cable.  I was irritated by the news for the next two hours.  My mother was still not back and I was getting worried.  I took a short walk around the hallways.  The nurse saw me and said my mother was out of surgery and would be up in a bit.  

When they wheeled her into the room, she looked shot.  

"How do you feel."

"Awful," she said.  

"Well, it's over now."

"No it is not."

"What?!?"

"No.  They couldn't do it.  They tried to put me on my belly and I was screaming out in pain.  They couldn't do the procedure."

The nurse came in.  

"She says they couldn't do the operation," I said.

She just grinned.  "Yes they did."

My mother said, "No they did not!"

The nurse still grinned and said, "You were out.  You don't remember it."

"They put me out?"

"Well, mom. . . they weren't going to do it while you were awake."

"What restrictions does my mother have now?"

The nurse went to the computer to read the report.  "She doesn't have any.  She can move about as she likes.  She can be discharged tomorrow."

When the nurse left, I asked my mother if she would like some water.  She sat up and didn't scream out in pain.  She drank the water and stood up.  She walked to the bathroom.  She was standing straighter than I had seen her in a long time.  So I said.  

I stayed and talked with her for awhile, then asked her if she wanted to call her friends.  Her phone was full of missed calls.  I told her I hadn't eaten anything all day and that I was going home to cook.  I'd be back, I said.  

I walked out into the late afternoon/early evening sun.  It was hot.  The air was clear.  It felt good.  I had stops to make.  First, the drugstore to get some silicone cream for my scar.  I liked my surgeon, but fuck his complaint.  I was going to do what I'd read over and over and over was best.  The cream, surprisingly, was under lock and key. WTF?  I bought the silicone strips as well.  Next door was the liquor store.  And. . . my scotch was on sale.  A BIG sale.  Whoa!  I bought more than one bottle, and walking back to the car, I felt as if I should buy some lotto tickets.  I just felt good.  

I went to the grocers, then I went home to cook.  It was six.  I made a Campari and sat on the deck.  I would have to stay at my mother's house for awhile, I knew, to see how she was doing.  I still had way too much to take care of here at the house, but I had taken a step forward.  I'd just have to bite the bullet and spend the money to make my house whole again.  That's what people do and that, as they say, is what the money is for.  

After dinner, I went back to see my mother.  She was doing fine, but she was getting sleepy.  It was 7:30 when I got her into bed.  

"If you wake up later, just ask them for something to help you sleep.  Tell them Xanax.  They will give it to you."

"Alright."  

And that is the tale.  As I say, I am relieved as long as I don't think too far ahead.  One foot in front of the other.  

Last night, I slept well.  I fell asleep at ten and woke at five.  That was fine.  In a bit, I will call my mother.  I will be busy with her the next few days.  My cousin is coming over on Thursday to stay the weekend, so there is that.  I will make some breakfast now, then take a walk.  The sun is shining brightly now.  I'll take what I can get.  

Why Is the Gift Shop Always Closed?

I have no pictures.  I have no story but the wailing tale of woe.  I'm tired of that story myself, but it is the only one I have.  Things seem to get worse instead of better.  I'm referring to my own tale, but at the hospital, I watched the network news, and it seems the universal narrative is going south as well.  The happy place is getting hard to find.  Only the rich seem oblivious.  One tells me he bought a bunch of stock in a company making AI weapons.  Penny stocks that, if they hit, can make you fortunes.  Another has taken his family to Iceland and Greenland on vacation.  Another derides my liberal views from his mansion on the hill.  My mountain friend worries, kinda, but he lives in the mountains and seems on permanent vacation.  I read a--a what?  A paid something or other on how to retire on a million dollars.  That's what it takes to live "comfortably" in retirement--if you are careful.  

Lesson learned.  Next time, I'll make more money.  

Money won't make you happy, they say, and happy won't make you money.  Was that Groucho Marx?  Two for one, one for all, and all form me.  

Many of my conservative friends sound like Trump when they talk about science.  Trump yesterday crowed about his great military parade.  

"They said there was a 100% chance of rain--imagine that, 100%--and it didn't rain.  It didn't rain all day.  They can't predict the weather hours in advance, right?  But they think they can predict it a year or fifty or a hundred years in advance?"

I shouldn't put quotation marks around that.  It is not an accurate quote, I'm sure.  It is just what I remember.   But that is a similar logic to what I hear from my conservative friends.  Illogical nonsense.  

And still they are not ashamed that they have voted for the malevolent idiot three times.  

Meanwhile, "the left" (if that is what we can call it any longer) trade in memes and slogans.  I watched footage of the pathetic chanting in the streets.  I get it, but it didn't look like power.  It looked more like a plea.  

Both sides seem stereotypical to me, but maybe that is all there is.  We are all stereotypes to a degree.  

That is what I got from sitting in a hospital room most of the day, that and a bad back.  I am angry about a lot of stuff, but I don't want to go on about it here just yet.  I'd like to tell you something salty or sweet, but all I have is bitter right now.  

No pictures, no story, and no music.  All I have is the incessant beeping of hospital machinery, the distant crying of a person in misery somewhere down a hallway, and dull hours of waiting.  

Oh, here's a thing.  The hospital is owned by the Seventh Day Adventist, and/so the gift shop sells no magazines or books other than biblical things.  But it doesn't matter, really, for they are rarely open.  Why is the gift shop always closed?

Exhaustion All Around

I'm searching for the connective thread today, the thing that will tie my disparate concerns together.  Age, I think, the act of human aging.  I am not, nor have I ever been, an agist.  Some may not agree, but for reasons I needn't mention here.  No, I do not think I'm an agist, but I am "age aware."  

People now talk a lot about "age appropriate" things.  Q likes to tell me I should be watching age appropriate porn, for instance.  He is joking, I think, but one never knows.  And there's the rub.  

Or "a" rub.

Don't take that the wrong way.  

I saw an article in the Times today about someone famous, maybe, who says she gave up wearing bikinis after forty.  "This is the bathing suit I prefer now," said the caption below a picture of her or someone supposed to be her sitting on a blanket in a stylish one piece.  Good for her, I say.  It is foolish to try to pretend about such things.  

Though, perhaps, I am foolish.  Not in the sense of wearing a bikini which I sometimes did in the appropriate places when I was much younger, when the gay men would stand on the dock and call to me, Tarzan. . . oh Tarzan."  

Yea, they did that.  Those were different times.  I am more likely to wear a shirt to the beach now.  And yet, I go to the gym everyday like I am going to recapture my youth.  It is foolishness on my part, sure, but it serves me well in some ways.  Had I not been strong, for instance, when I was run over on my Vespa, I am certain I would have died there in the street.  

O.K.  As I've often said. . . maybe it would have been better.  But I am not here to be morbid. 

Yet. 

But for someone with about a dozen of their 206 bones remaining unbroken. . . yea, the workouts are important.  I still look better than most men my age whose biggest injury has been tennis elbow.  

But I stray.  My mind is not what it should be today.  I'll get to that.  

So. . . the No Kings Protests.  I didn't get to go to any of them.  My mother is still in the hospital and is in worse, not better, health.  She is largely narcotized most of the time.  A weekend hospital stay is total bullshit.  The nurses seem to have no oversight.  Doctors do not roam the hallways.  I just deleted a detailed account of my mother's suffering, but I have deleted it knowing it would only turn some stomachs.  What I will tell you, though, is a 93 year old woman does not get the attention she needs, and it is only my intervention that gets anything done at all.  I do still own a bit of diplomatic charm.  I know not to get angry with the staff as it will have the complete opposite effect I am desiring.  But my mother suffers from a lack of care in a hospital run by MBAs looking to maximize profit.  

I am spending my days and evenings there and am exhausted.  I had hoped to do a bit of traveling once I was cleared by my surgeon.  That isn't going to happen.  

I have seen many deaths now, and I am watching many end of life things play out before my eyes, my mother and others, and I can tell you this, if you don't already know or have not yet guessed--it is never pleasant.  And, of course, people want to put the dying in a box somewhere in order not to see it.  

The end of life is very poorly planned.  One wishes to be Roy Batty in "Blade Runner."  He didn't get more life or avoid the final suffering, but he did get his hands on his god.  

"I want more life, fucker," he says before he crushes Eldon Tyrell's head with his bare hands.  

Selavy. 

Maybe, however, he should have simply asked for an easy, pain-free death.  That would somehow come in a close second if not really a first place finish.  

Today is going to be a make or break day for my mother, I think.  

Somehow, I kept up with the protests going on around the country.  I was sent photos and videos from protests going on around my own hometown.  There were many.  I guess people didn't want to travel too far from home.  From the images I received, most of the protestors were older--old, really, what my mountain friend called "the CNN crowd."  The images I saw on t.v. last night and in the papers this morning rather bolstered that view.  I guess I got used to protests in the '60s.  So, too, I'd guess, had many of the current protestors.  

Trump has opened a Pandora's Box, of course, and the genie or whatever will not be put back in the bottle.  I've mixed my metaphors, I know.  But my point remains.  Sending troops to L.A. did not stop the protests.  Of course.  Still, I think, like the protests of old, if the soldiers begin firing into the crowds as they did at Kent and Jackson State, people will head indoors and reinvent disco.  

I've been saying, both here and elsewhere, that this summer the streets will be bloody.  It seemed obvious and inevitable once Trump took office.  It seems even more so now.  And here's the thing--I don't think he cares.  

But the coalition of protesters we saw yesterday is not a cohesive block.  If there were young protesters out yesterday, they did not have the same goals as their elders.  And do not doubt that there were paid protesters in the crowd meant to disrupt and sow violence.  Their agenda is at odds with most of the marchers.  And herein lies the same old problem we've had before.  The left is not a cohesive group.  MAGA morons are.  And as we saw in Minnesota, MAGA nuts are not afraid to shoot.  While the left sit in meeting rooms and convention halls hashing out workarounds between various (tedious) ideologies, the right goes to military parades and wave flags and cheers.  When lefty protesters meet MAGA resistance, they want to take their ball and go home.  They will march through the safer parts of town and watch as paid participants burn cars and trash businesses.  

I'm suggesting that right now, the left cannot be counted on for unity.  Arabs and Jews, libertines and WOKE, the devout and the unbelievers--they may all be marching on No Kings Day, but not for the same reasons.  

The diversity of the left is working against them.  The many cultures are not coinciding so very well as the multiculturalists had imagined.  There is not much diversity on the right other than the obvious one that just doesn't seem to get exploited--the haves and the have nots.  Once the left can turn the workers against the billionaires, the right will crumble or at least be in as much disarray as the left.  

That is my bleak take on the state of things, anyway.  I'm sure many of you have found chasms in my narrative galore.  

But I have to get back to my mother.  Things are pretty bleak here, and again, I'm going it alone.  I can hear that voice--"That's what you always touted"--but it isn't true.  Sure, I've believed in a smaller world, but you know it was always a universe of two.  I have no envy, I promise you, but I would enjoy a little succor right now.  I would like to be able to lie in the lap of my own true love.  

Guilt

 I'll not be going to the protests today.  My mother is still in the hospital.  Everything works slowly.  They moved her to a new room.  It is not better than the old one.  It is by the nurses desk and is noisy, but my mother cannot hear, so. . . .  When I went to see her in the morning, she was miserable, sitting in a chair trying to eat, but she couldn't.  She'd been throwing up.  After a few minutes, she lay down in the bed and went to sleep.  I stayed and watched her, then said I would come back later.  And I did.  And once again, she was asleep.  I sat for over an hour, but she didn't move.  She had been narcotized.  Her conditions are conundrums, really.  She takes pain meds to alleviate her suffering, but pain meds constipate her.  She is very constipated.  But the opioids also make her nauseous, so they give her anti-nausea medicine.  She has a new doc in charge of her now, and he has called in a specialist, but first they must do an MRI.  And here's the weird part--they do scheduled MRIs and walk-ins during the day and hospital patients at night.  When I went back a third time around five, my mother was up and sitting in a chair.  Not long after, dinner came--fried chicken tenders, mashed potatoes with gravy, broccoli, grapes, and some chicken soup the sweet diet lady had thrown in for my mother in case she couldn't eat the other.  My mother nibbled at the chicken, ate a couple spoonfuls of mashed potatoes, and managed about 3/4s of the broccoli.  She ate one grape.  

"That should clog her up nicely," I thought.  

I couldn't believe they didn't have her on a drip to hydrate her.  I couldn't believe they had not given her an enema.  

The nurse came in.  She was nice.  She had called me earlier in the day to give me an update on my mother.  She said that my mother would not be going for her MRI until sometime that night.  She apologized.  

"What else is she going to do?" I asked, and the nurse laughed.  

My mother scrolled on her phone as I sat there.  Conversation was difficult, of course, because she can't hear what I say.  I have to say it all again at a much great volume.  

"I need a phone charger," she said.  

"Do you want me to see if they have one here?"

I went to the nurses desk and asked.  I could tell it was an unusual request, but the lady was nice and looked for one.  I went back and got my mother's phone and gave it to the lady at the desk.  

My mother couldn't figure out how to work the t.v., so I turned it on and gave her a mini lesson.   She sat looking at the television.  This was my third trip of the day.  It was getting dark, so I said I was going to go and get some dinner.  

"Don't go," she whined in voice that was faux but truly sincere. 

"O.K." I said and sat down.  

"No, no. . . go. . . you've got a life to live."

There was a lot of guilt giving in that.  

"What life?  I'm going home to eat.  It is Friday night.  I'll be doing what I always do."

I kissed her and asked her to call me after her MRI.  

I wasn't feeling well.  My nose had been running and I was tired and achey.  Perhaps I had picked up some illness in the hospital.  Just the place for it.  Most of the staff were wearing masks, so I thought maybe something was going around.  My MAGA Fauci hating friends always bring up masks.  "They don't work," they say.  

"Then why do all the doctors and nurses wear them?"

"They trap bacteria which are larger, but they don't stop viruses which are very much smaller."

"Which communicable diseases are caused by bacteria?" I ask.  Some variety of strep.  Not much else.  My MAGA friends are full of "viral" horseshit.  

But it is very possible that my illness was psychosomatic.  I tend to get whatever symptoms my mother suffers from.  If her feet swell, so do mine.  If she feels flu-ish, so do I.  My belly felt bloated just now.  Who knows.  

I went home and ate a can of garbanzo bean and lentil soup.  Fiber, I thought.  I followed up with a whiskey, then an apple.  I tried to find some news on my t.v. With the Israeli/Iran thing, I feel the need to get cable hooked back up.  I found ways to get the news of the day, but it was not contemporary.  Then I watched something I can't remember.  I was tired.  Worn out.  Before ten, I was getting ready for bed.  

It is June.  I've either been taking care of my mother or myself since January.  Half of 2025.  As I sit in the hospital rooms, I think of Ili coming to stay with me when I got run over.  We had not been together for months at the time, and what I didn't know then was she had a new boyfriend.  I think she was staying with him many if not most nights.  But she came and stayed day and night in my hospital rooms, sleeping on a cot, making sure I was o.k.  I think of the horrible tediousness of that now, of the boredom and exhaustion, and I feel very sad.  I think things went to shit when we went to Paris the following year.  I didn't realize it until we got home, but there was the expectation from many that I was going to propose to her there.  Maybe I should have.  The romance, you know, of it all.  But as usual, she was not a happy traveler much of the time, and she fought with me over the weirdest things.  It happened on every trip we took together, and there were many.  It was crazy, but thinking back, it wasn't that much different than our lives at home.  I've had very few arguments in my life with the people I have loved.  I hate to argue emotionally.  I love to debate without feeling, of course.  It has been the bread and butter of my life.  But nobody ever wins an emotional argument.  I believe now that those were Ili's bread and butter, a form of emotional manipulation.  It was hereditary I now believe, maybe not genetically so but part of the familial upbringing.  Still. . . I loved her enough to live with it, but I think the not proposing in Paris was something of a death nell.  For better or for worse.  

Sitting in the hospital so many days with my mother, I cannot get over Ili's concern and care and kindness and love.  So yea. . . it is something I will never get over.  

And it is a thing that guilts me every time I leave my mother's room to go home.  

There is a part of me that my mother's deteriorating conditions are dragging to the grave.  I'm just fucking worn out.  

"You have to take care of yourself, too," people say, but I am not so much like that.  I am more an empath than most people I know.  I'm emotional to a fault.  Things touch my heart far too deeply, and I believe that is why I pretend to be a rough and tough asshole.  I am not, though.  I've always liked pretend more than reality.  I pretend to be one of Teddy's Rough Riders.  

We all have our problems.  

So I head back to the hospital this morning.  I will sit there and listen to the tv westerns and the beeping of multiple machines, the chatter in the hallway.  I'll ask my mother things, twice always, maybe three times.  I will talk to her nurses and hopefully her doctor(s).  And when she is released, I will have to go live at her house once again.  All the traveling I had hoped to do once my leg was healed is now moot.  

And the house is still falling apart.  Most days now, I don't think I can keep doing it all alone.  I look at relationships and marriages I have no envy for whatsoever now and think, "Maybe they are happy?"  

In the end, maybe, nobody's time is their own.  

A Tarnished Luster

Well, the shit has hit the fan for sure now.  Israel's attack on Iran will have global implications.  For all of you who don't want to provoke countries with nukes, you have been fooling yourselves.  I keep saying this.  It is only a matter of time before one of the too many countries with nukes decides to use one.  It could be Pakistan.  It could be Russia.  Sooner or later, though. . . .  

Here at home, U.S. Senators are being dragged out of press conferences by "security" and forced to the ground, face first, in order to be handcuffed.  Nothing to see here.  Happens all the time.  

So it is now obvious, or should be to anyone with a thinking mind, that Trump's use of military in L.A. did not quell the protests, but rather has spread them across the country.  Will he send troops to every city now?  

And yet. . . Saturday is "No Kings Day," and the left is ready to get out and carry signs.  Here's one.  "Dictator or Democracy."  They both get five stars.  And it seems we had an election in which Trump was democratically elected.  So. . . who do you really blame, Trump or people who voted for him?  

Three fucking times.  

Trump did have a good idea, though--appeal to billionaires and idiots.  That has always been a winning combo.  Democrats have decided to piece together a coalition of trans right advocates, gay rights advocates, #MeToo advocates, and people who want to drive electric cars.  Oops.  Now what are you going to do with your Tesla?  

It may be time to write a strongly worded letter to the editor.  

But fuck me, those are your problems.  I have my own.  

I was looking forward to being cleared by the surgeon.  That would be swell.  But before my appointment, I got a call from my mother.  She seemed to be in a bad way.  She wasn't making a lot of sense, but I understood that she had tremendous back pain and that she had not been able to move her bowels for a long while.  She wanted to go to the E.R.  

"Can you wait until I see my surgeon?  I'll be over right after that."

So that was the plan.  The luster had been taken from the day.  

When I saw the surgeon, he was quite pleased with his work.  So was I.  The scar has healed nicely.  He was in a good mood about it.  Jovial, really.  I was guessing that the healing had gone better than one might hope given my age and the location of the wound.  

"Did we take a picture of that?" he asked his P.A.

"No."

"I did," I said.  

He asked me to pull it up on my phone.  He took the phone from me which scared the shit out of me as I feared he might start scrolling.  I know!  But I do.  He pinched the screen to enlarge the photo and looked at my leg and began telling me how he did what he had done so well.  

I was free to go.  

"I've read that silicone cream is the best thing to use on a scar," I said, but before I got it all out he fairly shouted, "BULLSHIT!"  

"Look at it," he said.  "You will barely see it."

O.K. O.K. . . .  I didn't bring up that I got that piece of information on the Mayo Clinic website.  

"So I can run and jump and surf now?" I asked.  

"Yes.  That won't come apart.  I'd have to cut it to open it back up now."

It had been an amazing recovery, really, given that it had been just weeks since he operated.  I was a bit ahead of the curve.  

As I walked out into the sunny parking lot, I felt better than I had for months.  

But. . . . 

When I got to my mother's house, she was sitting with a heating pad on her back.  She was confused about what to do.  She said she'd wait and call 911 that night to take her to the E.R.  There was no sense in that, though, I said.  What was she going to accomplish by waiting.  And so I convinced her that we should go now.  

And there we were again.  It seems like I've lived 2025 in that E.R. and hospital ward.  My mother, of course, could not hear the questions they asked her and she would, as has become her habit, answer questions she guessed they were asking.  I had to answer most of them for her.  They took her vitals.  Holy shit, her blood pressure was 205/99.  Was that possible?  That is in stroke range.  I got very concerned.  

The doc came in.  He wanted to get some X-rays, he said.  My mother was having tremendous difficulty lying down on the bed.  Finally, with a lot of moaning, she was whisked away.  I was alone in the room.  My back was hurting, so I stood up to move a bit.  I went to the door and peered down the hallway.  And what did I spy?  There, standing in her scrubs wearing a surgical mask, working at a computer was the E.R. doc who had treated my mother for her broken wrist, the same one who saw me when I went to the E.R. seven weeks ago--Dr. Magic!

Holy shit, I thought, we were lucky not to draw her this time.  She is young and beautiful, but I don't think much of her nascent medical knowledge.  She seems to be rather in the on the job training program.  Still. . . she is very pretty.  

O.K.  First things first.  Magic isn't her real name, but her real name is even more miraculous.  Secondly, this isn't her real photo.  I uploaded hers to Google Image Search to find one that approximated hers.  She is just this pretty, but I didn't want anyone to be able to look her up and tell her what my opinions are.  Why?  Well. . . . 

When she looked up and saw me, there was a recognition in her eyes.  She looked for longer than usual, then took down her medical mask, smiled, and waved.  Really?!  You call bullshit, perhaps, and I pretty much was, too.  But she did, and it made me feel very shy.  True.  

When they brought my mother back to the room from X-rays, she was in agony.  In a bit, the doc came in and said, "It looks like there is a compression fracture in your L2 vertebrae.  The X-ray analysis said it was 'age indeterminate.'  I want to get a CT scan for a better view so we can see if the fracture is old or new.  Let me get you some pain medication, and we'll send you over."

But that wasn't the order of events.  A fellow came in to take her for the scan, and when he moved the bed, my mother screamed out in pain.  

"I'm sorry," he said, then looking at me,"I'm sorry."

"They said they were going to get her some pain meds first."

"Let me go get the nurse," he said.  

Half a miserable hour later, the nurse came in with an injection of Dilaudid.  Oh, boy. . . that seemed to work pretty quickly.  

"Whoa.  That hit my head," my mother said.  

Quite awhile later, the fellow came back to take her for the scan.

Alone again, I got up to stretch.  I walked to the door to peer down the hallway, and again, there was Dr. Magic.  She looked over and waved again.  

"Hello, she smiled, "I remember you." 

Holy smokes!  My knees fairly buckled.  I'm a very shy fellow, and I'm afraid my silver tongue was tied.  She chatted me up for awhile, but my words came out like a sixth grade boy with a crush on his teacher.  There was a time. . . but probably not anymore.  And so. . . that is all there is to that story.  It is a pathetic story, I know, but it is all I have.  And it is the truth.  

When I stepped back into the room and sat down, my mind was full of confused adoration.  Or, in the most wonderful words of James Joyce, "Gazing up into the darkness I saw myself as a creature driven and derided by vanity; and my eyes burned with anguish and anger" (Araby).  

My mother was brought back into the room where we waited.  The E.R. was busy.  I had been listening to a man somewhere down the hallway violently puking ever so long.  Another man was brought into the room next to my mother's with chest pains.  There was a "Code Blue" screamed across the P.A. system.  And, of course, one can only guess that the place was understaffed by the corporate boys who ran the business.  My mother's nurse was working a twelve hour shift, she said through her yawns.  So. . . with much impatience, I patiently waited.  

When the doc came back, he said that the CT scan had shown clearly that she did have a compression fracture and that he wanted to admit her for the evening in order to manage her pain and keep an eye on her vitals.  He ordered up some Miralax as he said the scan also showed that she was very constipated.  

When he left the room, I said, "So. . . they've confirmed that you are full of shit."

I'd been sitting in the room all day.  They were going to admit my mother.  Nothing else was going on.  It was nearing five o'clock and I hadn't eaten anything yet, so I said, "I think I'll go get some dinner and then come back.  There is nothing else they are going to do, O.K.?"

"Sure, honey."

So I headed out to what was once my favorite Italian restaurant.  I don't have one right now that I like any better, but I am certain that this is not my favorite anymore.  It was early when I walked into the bar, and the bartender and one of the waitresses saw me coming up the sidewalk.  They were smiling at me as I entered.  

"Hi Bud," said the bartender.  She handed me two menus and I laughed.  "It's only me tonight," I said.  I was sure she was expecting Tennessee.  

"I'll just have the Blue Plate Special," I said with a grin.  "Whatever happened to that and the Senior Discount?  As soon as I got old, they took it all away."

I ordered a Fresco salad.

"They took that off the menu," she said. 

"What?  What did they replace it with."

"Nothing," she said.  

Well shoot.  I ordered a Chianti Classico and a Chicken Cacciatore.  I would need to find a new favorite Italian place.  

The bar began to fill up with "regulars."  You can see the same people here night after night.  I don't think any of them like me.  They are a snooty lot of faux-highbrows.  I hear their conversations, though, and I can testify to the best of my abilities that they are by and large idiots.  Proof?  They all voted for Trump. 

When I got back to the hospital, my mother was in her room.  She was up and walking about.  I guess the opioid had really helped.  She was unusually peripatetic.  They had brought her a dinner that she wasn't eating.  She didn't want to get into bed, and she kept walking out into the hallway for unknown reasons.  Finally she came back and sat in a chair.  In a bit, a nurse came in, but she was going off duty.  So I sat longer until the night nurse came in.  She got updated on my mother's chart, and I threw in some caveats.  My mother had not had any pain meds since the dilaudid.  I asked about that.  

"There are no orders here for pain medication," said the nurse. 

"But that was the reason the doctor admitted her--pain control."

"I'll check with him," she said.  "Maybe he just hasn't gotten around to it yet."

It was getting dark outside.  

"I"m going to go," I said.  "Do you need anything?  I'll come back in the morning."

It was almost nine when I dropped onto my couch.  None of my problems had gone away.  Save one.  I rubbed my hand across my scar.  It still felt tender but not that tender.  It would work out fine.  I'd had the cyst on that calf since I was in my thirties.  The calf now felt wonderfully free.  

I sat back and thought about the day.  When I thought about my conversation with Dr. Magic.  I could feel hot embarrassment rising up my chest and neck.  I would never have another girlfriend, I thought.  I was a complete imbecile.  It comes from living so much alone, I reasoned.  That and a simple deficit of character.

Whatever.  One foot in front of the other.  That's all one can do sometimes.  No chewing gum, no juggling.  Just one foot, then the other.  

And, when fortunate, a little music.  

Fortune hasn't smiled on me lately, though.  There is only the sound of the world falling apart.  

A Hellish Mindscape

Last night was the worst ever.  It is very strange when you have no control over your thoughts, when the mind just begins digging up every bad thing it has and playing it out before you.  Last night, it wasn't things I had done.  I don't think there is much there to dig up that is bad.  No, it was the things I've not done.  That isn't precisely true.  It mostly had to do with the house, which I bought, which I own, which is falling apart under my feet.  I still haven't heard from the framer my builder gym friend suggested.  Yesterday I went out to look at it.  The rotten joist is wet.  There is a leak of some kind there.  I'm starting to hallucinate the house tilting, leaning.  This is going to be a huge repair, and I can't even sell my house without having it done.  I need lots and lots of work on this old wooden house, and I don't feel up to it.  So last night, every time I closed my eyes, the horror show would begin again, and I thought the easiest way out is. . . .  I would get up and pace the floor for awhile, but it did no good.  When I would go back to bed, I would start to realize I have no one to help me through this, and I knew not only my body but my mind was going.  My hips and back and knee ached.  I couldn't control my thoughts.  

And so I dreamed of running away, of being homeless and alone without any obligations, free of all overhead. . . and it made me happy.  

Crazy, right?  That's what I think I am. . . crazy.  

I go to see the surgeon today.  I've decided that if he gives me the all clear, I will begin immediately working on the things I can around the house.  I had hired people to do it, but they just disappeared.  I don't know for sure, but I am starting to believe in voodoo.  Someone, maybe many, have put a hex on me.  

So it seems.  

My mother is not doing well, either, but she has me to deal with most of the external stuff.  How much longer I can do it, I don't know.  

And yet. . . there are things.  A hello by name from a woman who doesn't talk to me, her sister looking me dead in the eyes.  An out of the blue text from my friend in Miami.  And then, I look in the mirror and feel ashamed.  

"Look what has happened to me!"

I felt bad in the afternoon like I had gotten something, some gastro thing.  Who knows about food anymore?  I'd eaten a sandwich from Whole Foods for lunch.  I didn't have it in me to drive to my mother's house, so I called her and bailed.  I felt guilty, but I knew I couldn't do it.  I wanted a Campari.  I thought it would make my belly feel better.  It seemed to, so I had another.  I made an avocado, tomato, and garlic salad.  I had some wine.  Then I thought a whiskey would be just the thing.  

That is when I knew it was a psychological problem.  It might be both, but it was certainly mental.  The future doesn't look bright.  I don't even want to think about it.  

Today I will focus on putting one foot in front of the other.  No future beyond the next step.  

Oh, but that's enough about me.  How are you?  Why that's great.  Sounds like you're doing well.  You look good.  O.K. then.  You're going where for the summer?  Really?  That's sounds wonderful.  No, no, I am not going anywhere.  My mother, you know, and I have some things around the house to take care of.  Yea, no. . . it's all good.  Have a great trip.  When do you get back?  Oh. . . just before the school year begins.  My.  Well, give my best to everyone. . . . 

Somehow, it seems, I fucked everything up.  

Whatever.  

Whatever.

Whatever.  

Website

I am trying.  I started "building" a website last night.  It is worse than I thought.  The tools have changed since the YouTube fellow did his tutorial on how to build one.  Your choices weren't AI powered when he did it.  Maybe AI can be turned off--I don't know.  When I preview something I did, it doesn't look the same when I go back to the site.  I've made a hundred indecisions on the front page alone.  For instance, the "Presenting a few photographs" became "a few photographs" to "photographs from."  The line across the top has disappeared then come back but narrower.  I can't seem to make the menu bar at the top any darker.  

When I click on the "Portfolio" page, I get lost.  I thought to put my lost photos from my Kerouac inspired trip around the country after college as the first one, but then--and this is no joke--I couldn't find them.  Anywhere.  I tried every portable hard drive I own.  I was about/am about to lose my mind over this one.  I want my "A Few Days One Summer" surf pics second.  I want to start with those because they are the easiest to choose from.  Then I'll jump into "Street View."  That is what I think I will call it.  At first, I was going to do that by city, but that would be too much.  Rather, I will just put up street photos from anywhere.  People don't give a shit about the city, I figure, just the image.  The fourth portfolio page will be some of the most gentle "Lonesomeville" images, first Polaroids, then digital.  I may put up a fifth portfolio page of random shit, but that will be done later on down the line.  Right now I'm just trying to get something up to show people when I ask to make pictures of them.  

I must write an "About" page.  Oy!  That one. . . . 

By and large, I am not using the website to promote myself.  I won't link my blogs to it.  I am funny about that.  I want people to read them but am paranoid that people will read them.  I am sure, though, that I don't want people to whom I give my "business" card coming over here to read this stuff.  I want them to think I am "normal."  

Sort of.  

I keep trying, but the whole thing is a mess.  My Miami friend has a degree in this and said she would help me build the website, but that was long ago and far away now, it seems.  I am going to have to do it on my own.  And I can't even get the words right.  csphotography@ or c.s.photography@?  I am lousy at making decisions.  

Selavy.   

Whatever is done can be undone later, it seems.  

But this is legacy shit.  I just want to be able to make some new pictures.  

If you see me driving in my car, look out.  Give me plenty of space, 'cause I might be looking through the viewfinder of a camera.  Don't hit the brakes if you are in front of me.  

I took this one for the skull and crossbones on the rear fender.  Who in the hell does that?  

Q sent me this yesterday.  

"Rantch."  He knows I'm a hillbilly who grew up with such language.  "Chree."  "Chimley."  "Valentimes."  That's just the way we talk.  We didn't have no "libary."  "Schoolin'" was such an awesome mystery.  

It's good to have the visual.  

I need to get back to the website and many other things.  Did you see the full moon?  I didn't.  I did manage my drinking again last night, though.  No pre-dinner cocktail, no cooking and dinner wine.  I did allow myself two scotches, though.  It is madness to think you won't drink through a steamy, sticky summer in the south.  

Oh. . . my lunch was fish tacos at a shitty dive restaurant.  The place is awful, but the tacos were good.  And you know what?  I didn't take my camera in with me.  Not even my phone.  Big effing mistake.  I'm going to keep a camera on my side everywhere from now on.  

You know. . . I should have led off with that.  

I'm going to trash the web building I've already done and start over again.  

Yea.  

Magazine Style

Too many of my pictures turn out like this one--magazine illustration.  Did this on Sunday in the 'hood, and of course there were people about, me explaining that I just wanted to take a photo "of this cool old car," so that I didn't take my time but just framed and shot once.  Selavy.  And the damned thing doesn't look nearly as beat in the photo as it did in reality.  Whatever.  

I just needed to get back and show the car in its environment.  But the dogs. . . you know.  

Another.  A Church's Fried Chicken shack.  It seemed abandoned, but in this part of town it is often difficult to tell.  Across the street, though, was the real picture.  Two men were setting out big tires in front of a cruddy used car dealership.  The picture would have been with the two of them standing with the tires, the small flags and the dealership in the background.  Again. . . I didn't have it in me.  

Stranger in a Strange Land.  I couldn't grok well enough.  

The rest of the photos I took were worse than this, so. . . . 

Here's a good one this morning.  

This from a state that doesn't want weed--Ibogaine!  In case you don't know:

So on May 11, 1972, Thompson gave the campaign a jolt, filing a speculative story through a primitive version of a fax machine he called the Mojo Wire. Describing Muskie as a competitive political animal who would never back away from a challenge, Thompson couldn’t understand why the senator had suddenly become rigid and unresponsive—seeming to read directly from a script—but he took one hilarious shot at figuring it out.

“Not much has been written about the Ibogaine Effect as a serious factor in the presidential campaign,” Thompson wrote in an article he later claimed was never meant to be taken at face value. In it, he declares, “word leaked out that some of Muskie’s top advisers called in a Brazilian doctor who was said to be treating the candidate with ‘some kind of strange drug.”

The effect of this, though, was devastating to the Muskie campaign, and he never regained momentum.   

https://www.instagram.com/reel/CxorjE_pMXy/?utm_source=ig_web_copy_link

 You'll want to watch the clip.  

One of the things MAGA likes to do is look back and speculate.  Trump learned his lessons well from Dr. Thompson.  

"I've heard people say that Biden didn't sign those orders.  Someone was using the autopen."

Trump is big on the "I've heard" statements.  Pure Thompson.  

"I didn't say it was true." 

One of the big MAGA claims is that Fauci was hiding the facts, that he should be put in prison.  This one kills me.  They will cite all sorts of spurious evidence that contain a grain of truth to make the rest sound legit.  

No, man. . . Hunter S. Thompson sure as hell taught lessons to the right.  

"People claim that Trump has tertiary syphilis  and it is effecting his brain.  Some report that his doctors have been trying to treat it with hydroxychloroquine, Exelon and Reminyl."

So easy. 

 I went to YouTub U. to learn how to set up a website.  Even the easy ones will take days to shape.  So many things. . . ugh.  I've already forgotten most of them and will have to go back and watch again.  Baby steps.  One thing at a time.  

Four weeks of brutal antibiotics, beds and chairs, then another few weeks of not doing too much in order to let the surgical wound heal, plus the eating and the drinking. . . have made me a fat boy again.  Now the long road back.  Again, you can always come back but you can't come back all the way.  And besides, fat is only one of my problems.  But I need to start, so yesterday, I decided I would quit drinking.  I had an Athletic beer with lunch instead of wine.  It was good.  This would be easy.  Before mother's, I went to the liquor store and bought some THC drinks just in case.  Five calories and a buzz.  Back home, I eschewed my afternoon cocktail for a cranberry and water, A.A. cocktail style.  Mmmm.  I drank a bunch of them.  Then, as I cooked, I eschewed my usual prep wine, and when dinner was plated, I had another Athletic.  Things were going swimmingly.  But then, having just eaten chicken, me speculating about salmonella, I thought I needed something to kill any random bacteria.  Yea, that's what I thought.  So I had a scotch.  Christ, it was good, so I had another.  

But then I stopped.  I made some green jasmine tea from little tea pearls.  And then I drank about 2.5 grams of the THC drink.  It was nine.  I was ready for bed.  

All in all, I think "not bad."  I kicked a lot of calories to the curb.  Oh. . . for desert I had half a honey dew melon.  I mean, really. . . I'll lose weight, right?  

Or at least not keep piling it on.  

But. . . what to do about the other stuff?  Well. . . !

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For $300-$350, I can be looking like an embryo again.  

In truth, for most of my life, I was the only man I knew using little beauty products.  Nothing, really, just putting moisturizer on my face and the occasional home face mask with egg white, whole milk, turmeric, and honey.  And that was only more lately.  For most of my life it was just the egg whites that my mother used at home.  

Now, of course, metro men do it all from manscaping to botox to little surgeries.  I'm not hating.  I'm just late to the game.  

I'm simply using hyaluronic acid and DMAE.  

But I'm going to ask my surgeon if he can do my eyes 😛!

Joke.  

But I'll ask him if he knows someone.  

How the fuck did I get here?

Well. . . I didn't sleep well at all, up every hour or so.  I'm going to spend all my money on sleep things.  The reports are that bad sleep will kill me.  I'm against that.  

Life is still weighing heavily upon me.  Nothing is getting done and the problem pile just keeps growing.  I tell myself "Thursday."  That is when I see my surgeon again, and after I get the "all good," I am going to begin doing some of the needed projects myself.  But there are still the big, major things like the floor joists to be taken care of.  And I think maybe that is bothering my sleep.  

It is hotter than Hades here when the sun is out, and when the clouds seem to cool things off, the air gets stuffy.  Chubby thighs will chafe and heat rash will have its way.  I read this morning that the number of people dying of heat exposure is multiplying exponentially because nighttime temperatures are not dropping low enough.  

 

Drill, baby, drill.  

So tonight or tomorrow, depending on what you read, is the Strawberry Full Moon.  I think of the strawberry wine Skylar ordered at a bar when we met up in Strawberry Country a couple years ago.  I was on the wagon at the time, and didn't get to taste.  But. . . 

That's a fair warning, a cautionary tale, I'd say.  

But that can't be the song of the day.  Q sent me the death notice for Sly Stone last night.  Ah, man. . . shit.  Here's the song Q sent.  Stone was so effing good.  

Dance to the music, baby.  In the Summertime.  

A Thousand Eyes

And so it has begun. . . pitifully, perhaps, but a thing must begin before it can end, and if I don't make better photos soon, this project could come to a screeching halt.  This picture is o.k.  I took it a few days ago driving to my mother's.  I thought it important to show the frame of the window to show it is about the road.  Good job, I'd say, since I had my little Fuji X-VI with the flash turned on at hand.  The inside of the car lit up like Christmas, and I like the result.  

I've been such a bum, though.  I don't really want to do anything at all.  I saw one of those silly things on the internet yesterday and thought it pretty apropos.  

Let's swap summer for winter and it is perfect.  But I used to leave the house.  And so Sunday morning, I packed up some cameras and lenses and headed out for a little adventure.  I stopped at McDonalds first, though, to get an eggamuffin.  I needed fuel.  I sat in my car in the shade on the parking lot and ate.  It didn't take long.  And then I headed for the interstate.  

Don't get excited.  I wasn't going far.  I was driving to the "wrong side of town."  It is one aspect of "The End of the Road," the unattainable American Dream.  Now I believe that is true for everyone, but it is especially true for most.  I'll have more to say about that in the future.  

I went to some places I'd been recently on my plastic light cover adventures, but I hadn't taken any pictures then because there was just too much going on.  Too many people, too much traffic.  But Sunday morning is calm and sleepy.  

You would think.

But let me tell you, the neighborhood has a thousand eyes.  Seriously.  There are people out everywhere.  Every time I would stop the car to get out and take a picture, somebody walked out onto their porch or balcony.  Corner boys were hanging around.  

"Hey man. . . whitey's in the neighborhood with a camera."

Yea, it's true my brother, but I'm no popo.  I'm just some guy trying to make pictures.  Still, it is a bit spooky.  I try not to be spooked for there is nothing worse.  I don't think dogs are the only ones who smell the fear pheromones.  So I limped in a cocky manner like I was made.  

"Brother, you don't want any trouble now.  You can't touch me.  I'm not like the others."

I was driving in an industrial area of shitty warehouses and lots of truck repair places.  I mean, it was beat.  And still. . . eyes were everywhere.  

This place was advertising for diesel mechanics.  Brother, there is plenty of good money to be made there.  It just ain't for me.  

So I drove and stopped where I could, leaving the car running, and would limp about and make pictures that don't inspire.  But since I've not been going out with a camera for a very long time, I thought it was just part of the deal and that I would have to shake off the rust.  Maybe that is true, but my heart felt something contrary.  

Speaking of hearts, I read that men die of a "Broken Heart Disease" quite often.  That ain't good news.  My heart is hardly ever whole.   But what can you do?  Everybody's going to die of something, and it will never be what you want.  Still. . . quit telling me this shit.  

* * *

I wrote that yesterday before going to dinner with mother.  We ate with her across the street neighbors, one of their usual friends, and the 91 year old neighbor from a couple doors down.  Chicken and dumplings, creamed corn, lima beans, and corn bread.  Real southern.  I brought a bottle of wine that lasted a minute.  Then we had some really bad, cheap wines from the house.  I rarely choose the water over the wine, but. . . .  Our hosts are good, though, to do this as neither of them are doing well, he with a terrible back that has crippled him, she with. . . everything age can bring.  They start cooking in the early afternoon and have to clean up when we leave.  I never help with anything, of course.  I feel it would be bad manners.  I simply bring the good wines.  

Though my mother lives across the street, the heavy rains came and we were held in place for too long.  Finally, just when Mr. MAGA began his attacks on Fauci, the Biden Crime Family, and the rest, the rain let up.  

"Mom, c'mon. . . we need to go before the rain comes back."

I got a call a little while after getting home.  It was mom.  Uh-oh.  

"I can't get my laptop to come on."

The night before, just before nine, I had to drive over because she couldn't work the t.v.  It is getting to be a bit of a challenge now.  She can't remember how to do many things.  Last night at the dinner table, she was telling us that she bought her car in 1965.  "No. . . 1985.  What is it?"  

Yup.  

It will be another scorcher today.  I've been looking at the weather around the state.  Our highs are much greater than anyplace on the coast.  T. is in Key West.  The high there today will be seven degrees below our own.  WTF?

I think my surgical wound has healed nicely.  I don't think the scar will be all that pronounced.  This guy did a really good job, I think, and I will tell him so.  

"Hey, man. . . do you do eyes?"

I slept an hour at a time again last night.  Up now since five.  I think I'll go back to bed.  

Because I can. 

Just Another Shopping and Dining Thing

Do you ever laugh my cryings and weep my joys?  What I mean is, do you get a kick out of reading about my troubles and sorrows?  I'm not trying to make you feel bad about it.  It's o.k.  You see, that is part of the deal.  This fellow I write about is not real.  He is a coyote, a trickster.  Road Runner always outsmarts him, and he often outsmarts himself.  So it's o.k.  It's just part of the storytelling.  

You fuckers.  

Ha!  I woke every couple hours in the night.  I finally rose just before five.  I didn't really want to read the news, so I went back and read a lot of my blog posts.  There is some good stuff there, but boy, I should edit more closely.  Whatever.  It is all just the rough draft of an unwritten novel.  

I'll blame today's errors on my lack of sleep.  I have no coherent plan, really.  There were just a lot of unconnected events yesterday that I will try teasing together. . . or along.  

Up early, I went to the gym.  The wound/scar (I'm not sure of its category now) is healing nicely so that wearing shorts to the gym seems fine.  But that means I have to show off my swizzle stick legs that have not been exercised for six weeks now.  Some walking and now a little stationary biking, but that is all.  I am slathered in sympathy fat that must be lost.  My overall build is. . . I am no natural Tarzan.  It will take work.  

I saw Tennessee at the gym.  

"Are we still going to buy a camera today?"

"Sure.  What time?"

"I'll be out of here by eleven.  I'll pick you up at eleven-thirty."

When I got home, I stripped down and got into the shower.  I soaped up my face and neck, then my chest and underarms and back.  Scrub, rinse, re-lather.  But all that is not to titillate or sicken you but to get to this:  then the legs.  You see?  I had not yet touched the wound/scar.  I soaped my hand and ran it lightly over the Z-shaped scab.  It felt o.k. even though I was getting a little tingle in my spine.  Once more.  O.K.  Enough.  It was doing well.  It felt fine.  I was relieved.   

T showed up just on time.  He drove.

I know everyone at the camera shop to some degree, but when we walked in yesterday, I didn't know anyone.  A new girl asked if she could help us.  And she did.  We were down to buying one of two cameras, the X-T5 or the X-Pro3.  I don't deal in these crop sensor cameras and had forgotten the differences between them and what was more in line with what T needed.  

"Let's go get lunch," I said, "and Google a couple things, then we can come back and buy."

Just around the corner from the camera store is a Michelin awarded udon noodle shop.  They make the noodles out of some special Japanese flour and fly in the water from some sacred source in the Japanese mountains.  I'm just riffing here from memory, but that is very close to being factual.  I've eaten there twice before, but man, this time was a real home run.  T lived in Thailand for a couple of years when he was training and fighting, and his wife has been working with companies in Japan and S. Korea for years, so he was very familiar with everything on the menu.  

"I'll have the same," I told the waiter.  Beef with udon noodles and an egg in their special broth.  

"It is our most popular item," he said.  

"We'll take some of the dumplings, too," said T.  

While we waited, I scrolled through the specs on the two cameras we were looking at.  Then the food came with little bowls of various things.  I asked T what was what.  Ginger and ground chili.  Sesame seeds and something.  I dumped everything into the bowl.  

T took one bite, then another, then he said, "This is really good."  He took another.  "This may be the best I've ever had."

I was glad I came with him because what I was eating was much better than what I'd had in my prior visits.  

By the time we had finished sucking the last noodle and broth from the big bowls, we knew what T was going to buy.  And when we walked back into the store. . . I knew people again.  There was my buddy who ran the processing lab.  There was the owner's son.  There was the Mexican woman who often helps me, and there was the little fellow who has been working there longest.  I didn't know if the sales people work on commission, though, so we waited for the new girl who had been helping us earlier.  

T. walked out with a new Fujiilm X-T5 and a used 16-55mm zoom lens which I thought to be the best lens for him to learn on.  The T5 was marked down around $500 under what it cost at the big box stores online which surprised the heck out of me, and he saved another $500 by buying the lens used, so all in all, he did very well.  

Driving back from the store as we passed the big gardens and park, T slowed the car and pointed into a tree where ten small birds were dive bombing a black crow.  

"Look!  The crow took one of the babies from the nest!"

And sure enough, he had the chick in his beak as the little birds dive bombed him.  It was something I'd never seen before.  

"And that is nature.  Eat and be eaten," I said.

"That's all of life."

Back at the house, I helped T set up his camera menu for simple shooting.  I hate the Sony and the Fuji menu systems.  They are too long and complex.  I showed T. how to set the camera to Aperture mode, how to use the exposure compensation dial, and set almost all the menu settings to something safe.  

His phone rang.  It was his wife.  He was supposed to be home in four minutes.  He was in trouble.  

"O.K. man. . . I'll see you when you get back from the Keys."

The day was moving on, and I still had not taken a picture.  The streets around the camera shop and the restaurant there in what is referred to as Little Vietnam was full of colorful people.  It made me itchy, but not a picture I took.  

We had stumbled into a market after lunch that was next door to the Michelin place.  It was a huge collection of Asian food stalls with rows of tables and chairs set up in between.  

"This looks like everyplace in Thailand," T said, and indeed, the place was packed to the gills.  

"Oh, man. . . we have to come back to try this."

That is what is happening in my own hometown.  It just keeps getting better.  More money is pouring in, big money.  Everywhere in my little village, million dollar homes are being torn down to build six million dollar homes.  Longtime residents shake their heads in astonishment.  Within just a few years, four or five Michelin starred restaurants have opened.  I say for or five because I don't go.  Can't afford them.  Some of my friends say that Michelin is giving away too many stars and that they don't mean what they used to.  Still, the places are plenty pricey.  Many of my new friends and acquaintances do go, and I feel myself growing poorer all the time.  Shitty car, old house, and a seemingly shrinking pension.  I'll be sitting in my underwear in the yard throwing rocks at passing cars and yelling at kids soon.  

So it seems.  

"Why is he always carrying a camera?  Don't talk to him kids.  Don't even look."

See?  You are laughing.  That's what I mean.  

Now the sun is up.  I think I'll go back to bed.  I may go out with the camera today and force myself to make a photo.  I might.  Tonight I am eating with my mother at her neighbors' house.  Chicken and dumplings, I hear.  

At least I won't' have to cook.  

Oh. . . I almost forgot.  I watched two very long interviews with Cormac McCarthy.  Oh, shit. . . how awful.  He is very disappointing in much the same way my other favorite author, James Salter, was.  They were both small, precious men who were as boring in speech as they were scintillating in writing.  I would recommend strongly that you not watch interviews with either of them.  I have to, of course.  It is what I do, what I know, but you. . . you are free to skip it.  In life, I believe, they would have been irritating, forgettable men.  

But fuck it.  Let's get back to The Road.